Different people may have different opinions for what extend will be consider or count is cheating. Some people may have more lenient than others, is arguable also as the other school of taught – the Cheater always lies, and deny. One things sure is the cheating is never to be acceptable in a normal relationship.
Physically cheating will not be excusable as betray your partner or spouse, but, how about emotionally or ambiguous action like flirting, talking/ ‘dreaming’ about he/her ex, sending some sexy texting to opposite sex etc. The degrees of acceptance may be different and there is no standard guide line for that, but the fire is always begin from a spark before go wild. The early signs of emotional betrayal and flirting behaviour are always lead to serious situation of cheating.
Spot the signs and put the fire off early. Don’t under estimate the small fire. Tell your partner your guideline of acceptance and extend of non tolerate behaviour will safe some headache in future.
Continuous communication and understanding with each other can cut down the chances of flirting behaviour of your partner. Occupy your partner more like the day before engaged/ married day, and keep the day like dating before. This is always easy in saying than do, but why not? The control is still yours and it is your choices.
If you have strong sense of your spouse or partner is cheating on you? Don’t guess and put pressure on yourself. You can trail them to find out the truth or get a professional Private Investigator/ Detective or Private eye to perform the secrete surveillance. The reasons when you should consider the PI is you can’t handle your emotional or inexperience to carry out surveillance. Let’s the expert to help you clear your doubt.